What happened to Nonoxynol-9?

Hi! I’m looking for advice on birth control. My girlfriend and I have been using a diaphragm with spermicidal jelly. Lately though we’ve had a hard time finding the spermicide at the drugstore. So I did some internet research and found a site that says that pretty much all the spermicide manufacturers have pulled their [...]

Radio Interview with me

You can listen to a radio interview with me from Vocalo by clicking on these links Part 1: http://www.vocalo.org/explore/content/48194 Part 2: http://www.vocalo.org/explore/content/48198 We chat about sex, sex ed and why early to bed!

Face Off: Share vs. Feeldoe

Dear Sex Lady, I am trying to decide between the Feeldoe and the Share dildo. Which one should I get? -Moly Ah… the age old double dildo question. First, let me say, that as always, choosing a sex toy is a very personal decision and one that is near impossible to make for anyone else. [...]

Ass to mouth

If you are pleasuring a woman from clitoris to anus, and you are just using your tongue (no barriers), after you have been in the back, what do you do? I can’t see running into the bathroom to use mouthwash, etc before I start kissing or clitoring…it seems awkward. It seems awkward to use a [...]

Quieter Than the Pocket Rocket

My lady is fond of her pocket rocket, but would like to try something different. I have been looking at “Gina” and “Iris” and wonder what the difference is? You specifically say that the Iris is ultra quiet. The noise level is important because of children. Iris looks intriguing but no comment is made about [...]

Cockring for your Foreskin

Hey Sex Lady, My boyfriend would like to use a cock ring to hold back his foreskin so he can experience a more intense sensation. Do you have any suggestions? Thank you, Sally Hi Sally, Wow. That is a new one! Most of the cockrings that are stretchy would probably be small enough to fit [...]

Welcome!

Hi folks and welcome to my new blog! Here I will be answering your questions about sex , sex toys and the like. Since I spend a good portion of my day doing this anyway, I thought I’d make the info available to everyone! If you ever have a sex related question, feel free to [...]